Top 3 Game-Changing Tips for Flying with Kids (Without Losing Your Mind)

Traveling with kids by plane can feel like a high-stakes operation, but with a little strategy and the right prep, it can actually go smoothly. Whether you're flying with a toddler, preschooler, or a whole squad of small humans, these three tried-and-true travel tips will help you get from point A to paradise with fewer meltdowns (theirs or yours).

1. Book Flights Strategically

Not all flights are created equal, especially when you’re flying with kids. Think of booking like a game of chess. You're not just choosing times; you’re planning for maximum calm. Here’s how to play it smart:

• Nap time is golden. Try to schedule your flight during your child's usual nap or when they tend to be happiest.

• Early birds are often happy birds. Morning flights tend to have fewer delays and less airport chaos. Plus, your child is more likely to be well-rested.

• Pick the right seats.

  • Window seat: Built-in entertainment for curious eyes.

  • Aisle seat: Easy access for bathroom runs or quick walks up and down the cabin.

  • Back of the plane: Closer to the bathrooms, more open seats (sometimes), and faster help from flight attendants.

Pro tip: Some airlines allow early family boarding so take advantage of it to get settled without the pressure of a line behind you.

2. Burn Energy Before Boarding

Think of the airport as your pre-flight playground. The more energy your kids use before the plane, the better they’ll behave on it.

• Find a play area. Many airports have designated kids' zones or empty gates where they can run, climb, and shake off the wiggles.

• Walk the terminal. Make it a game. “How many escalators can we find?” or “Let’s count the planes!”

• No screen time just yet. Save the tablets and movies for once you’re in the air, when you really need the quiet.

Bottom line: A tired kid is more likely to nap. A tired, hungry, overstimulated one is a meltdown waiting to happen.

3. Pack a Survival Kit (This Is Not a Drill)

Think of this as your Mary Poppins moment. A well-packed carry-on can make or break your flight.

Here’s what I always include:

• Entertainment:

  • Sticker books, crayons, coloring pads, or LED drawing pad

  • Small toys, puzzles, and fidget spinners

  • Downloaded shows or movies on a tablet/phone with headphones

• Snacks on snacks on snacks:

  • A mix of familiar favorites and surprise treats

  • Keep it low-mess and easy to eat

• Comfort items:

  • Blankets, pacifiers, loveys, or favorite stuffies

  • Extra clothes (for everyone—yes, even you)

• Cleanup supplies:

  • Wipes, tissues, and hand sanitizer

  • Disposable changing pads and plastic bags for dirty clothes

Unexpected hero item: A roll of painter’s tape so kids can decorate the tray table or window and peel it off mess-free.

Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This

Flying with kids is a journey, not just a destination. But with a little foresight and a well-packed bag of tricks, you can avoid turbulence (figuratively, at least). Use these three tips to make your flight smoother, more fun, and a whole lot less stressful.

And when all else fails? Deep breaths. And snacks. Lots of snacks.